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4 Tips for Lesbians Creating a Successful Online Profile

lesbian profileYour success in the online dating community can only be as good as the effort that you put into it. While searching for your perfect match is a big part of the experience, so is promoting yourself so that others will be just as interested in you.

For many people, creating their personal profile is hands down the hardest part of the experience. Are there even words that really describe you? How do you best say it? Here are some tips for creating a profile that will entice other ladies and warm up your love life.

#1 The Picture

Whatever you do, don’t skip this part. Your profile needs a picture, and it needs to be current. Nobody wants to connect to the generic silhouette in the picture box. They want to connect with you instead. Let’s be honest, even though looks aren’t everything, we like to have some idea of what the person on the other end looks like.

For your main profile, choose a picture that highlights your smile, preferably taken in natural sunlight. No sullen faces or duck lips. Also, avoid pictures where you are one of several people in the photo.

#2 Fill in the Blanks

Take some time and fill in all those boxes with meaningful text that gives just enough of a tease to tempt the women on the site. Be honest, keep it real but a little flair and kookiness is great to break the ice and the monotony of profiles that all sound alike.

#3 The Subtle Brag

Is there something interesting in your life that could be used as in icebreaker? Have you met a personal idol or famous person? Have you taken an exotic vacation and saw things that most of us only see in pictures? Do you have a unique hobby or achievements that highlight your personality? Don’t be afraid to put them out there, just keep it light and spread the focus around to more than just this one tidbit.

#4 Keep It Positive

Isn’t it better to be attracted to each other through similar likes rather than dislikes? Only mention dislikes if they are absolute deal breakers, such as you won’t consider dating a smoker, someone who has had a previous straight relationship or other lifestyle habits that are off limits in your book. Keep your other “dislikes” to yourself for now. Keep the tone of your headline and intro light and save the heavy stuff for an actual relationship.

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Lesbian Relationships Between Teenagers: Should Parents Worry?

parents worry about teenageMy friend Carol came over for tea today. She has some interesting things to tell me about her sixteen-year-old daughter Brandy. I haven’t seen Carol in ages so it was a great opportunity to catch up and to mingle. She brought over some scones and pastries, and ready for our high tea conversation. She was eager to spill out the secrets that she has discovered about her daughter. She puffs out a big sigh, and said: “my daughter is a Lesbian.”

I was confused about what she was talking about. Perfect little Brandy, 4.0 GPA, captain of the cheer leading squad, chess club genius, and everything else that screams perfection is a lesbian. That was like the aftershock of an earthquake. Even after much contemplation, I was still not convinced that this all-American girl can be a lesbian. I thought maybe there were some assumption and misunderstanding, after all Brandy was gorgeous and often caught the eyes of many potential suitors near her vicinity. It was hard for Carol to accept this idea and difficult for me to fully grasp it, but after hours of conversing the matter, we came to the conclusion that it wasn’t so bad after all.

Normally, a sixteen-year-old girl spends a majority of the time thinking about boys, but Brandy does not acknowledge them at all. She barely speaks or hangs out with any guys. Her focus was on her school and on Erica. Erica was Brandy’s best friend and they are constantly stuck together like siamese twins. Carol loves Erica and lets her come over practically every day to hang out with Brandy. Then one day, she caught the two girls making out in the room. Carol was horrified and confused at the same time. Everything she thought about Brandy was thrown out the window. She started doing research about teenage lesbian dating, but still end up more confused than ever.

Fortunately, with my expertise and liberal lifestyle, I was able to open the doors to answering all of Carol’s questions. First and foremost, she was frightened about how others would view Brandy’s lesbian relationship with Erica. In my experience, lesbian couples are the same as every other heterosexual couple. We live in the era of “open-mindedness,” where nothing freaks anyone out anymore. This would be why Brandy was very open about her relationship. She even told Carol that she was proud to be a lesbian despite its deviation from the social norms. Carol couldn’t comprehend the situation and had to storm out of the house. During high tea, she thought carefully and realized that it was her cultural generation that made her view this as a taboo. While in fact the whole teenage lesbian relationship was a choice and preference. Her daughter prefers women over men, or maybe that she has a strong connection with Erica. Whatever the reason could be, Brandy is still growing and learning about herself. Her lesbian preference should not be looked at as something different or disturbing but should be nevertheless embraced and welcomed.

Since Brandy is still learning about herself, she may prefer to be a lesbian in this stage of her life but who knows what could happen. Maybe in college, she will meet the man of her dreams, and gravitate towards a heterosexual relationship. At this point, I advise Carol to learn more about her daughter’s point of view pertaining to lesbian dating. Every lesbian has different perspectives about it. Some see lesbian dating as a label, network, a group, whereas others don’t see a label at all. Some people just view it as love and connection towards another individual regardless of lesbian or not. At this point, it’s important to learn from the lesbian about what a lesbian is rather than changing her.

teenager lesbian relationshipTeenagers are very impressionable. They are at the stage of wondering what they want or don’t want in their lives. The confidence level of a teenager is constantly fluctuating because of the lack of experience in life. Anything or anyone can have an easy influence on them. For example, if a teenager meets and gets along with a group of lesbians, they may try to fit in by becoming a lesbian. This is called group conformity and can be very detrimental to a teenager’s development. This is why I encourage Carol to check if Brandy is truly in love with Erica or is this a phase to conform to a group of friends. If this is a mature decision on Brandy’s part without any group influences, then the next step is to check if she is near any lesbian clubs or network. This is to ensure that the parent is involved in this process and is aware what type of social group the teen is involved in. After all, lesbians are most likely to be involved in groups with other lesbians that understand them.

Teenage Lesbian dating can be very complicated. If the parents refuse to accept their lesbian daughter for being herself, it can actually drive a wedge between their relationships. It’s best to lend a listening ear and to learn about the process from the teen. Teenage lesbian relationships or dating are usually a phase where the teen is trying to define herself. This is why it’s important for the parent to be supportive and to let the teen find herself. College can be a different experience and can further help teens transition towards growth and development. There could be a huge chance that the teen will realize that they are not into the same gender and might prefer the opposite gender. Then again there could also be a case that the teen realizes that they are truly a lesbian and prefer the same gender. Either way, teenage lesbian dating, and relationships are unique experiences that can help them define their sexualities. This process should, therefore, be cherished and not shunned. Parents should not worry about teenage lesbian dating, in fact they should embrace it.

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A Large Puzzle to Lesbian: How to Date a Girl?

woman date a womanBoy-Girl relationships are the norm the world over. Every cute couple you come across meets this description. They are littered everywhere. At the mall and at the park, you will find boy-girl couples spending time together. Well, even at your own home, boy-girl relationships seem to be the only thing people care about. After all, you yourself are a product of such relationships. You are, therefore, made to believe that the only way to relate intimately is with a member of the opposite sex. So you try these relationships out. You date a couple of boys at school and in your neighborhood. The relationships are not all that bad after all, boys are fun. The day you bring your first boyfriend home everyone is excited. They say you make a cute couple and your folks start picturing the two of you at your wedding.

You date for a while but the relationship doesn’t excite you anymore. It’s not that the sex is not good or your boyfriend has been cheating on you. In fact, the sex is great and your boyfriend happens to be the rare faithful type. On the surface, you have the best relationship in the world but deep down you are yearning for more. What could be wrong? It’s all a mystery to you up until you find yourself fantasizing about girls. Oh! No could you be a lesbian? You tell yourself that that cannot be true. After all, you have been on a constant diet of adult cock all your life. You push this thought to the back of your mind and continue with your ‘straight’ life. The more you try to ignore this feeling the harder it becomes not to think about girls. You are mesmerized by the thought of being with a girl. Every time you see a girl you picture her naked and in your arms. It then dawns on you that you love girls and want to be with them. You end your straight relationship and officially declare yourself a lesbian.

Lesbian dating

In your mind, you thought that finding love in the lesbian field would be easy. How wrong you are. Lesbians are not that open like gay men and are, therefore, hard to find. Where do you even find lesbians to date? Is that chick you are eyeing even a lesbian? These are some of the questions that new lesbians ask themselves. Previously, you didn’t have to struggle to attract boys. They just came and your task was simply to sort them out and find the right one for you. Well, here you are a lesbian and no one seems to notice you. It can get quite frustrating and overwhelming especially for newbies. Fortunately, for you, we have compiled valuable tips to help you find a great lesbian hookup.

Where to meet GIRLS

Lesbians, unlike gay men, are quite elusive. You won’t find lesbian parties being advertised openly and this makes lesbian dating especially difficult. Lesbian bars are also not that common. This makes lesbian dating sites as the best option for lesbian hookup. The key to succeeding in such platforms is a great profile. Describe yourself well and make it quite clear what you are looking for. Do you want a long relationship or are you after wild sex and a brief hook up. Upload a smiling photo of yourself as this makes you out to be welcoming and accommodating. It is also advisable to upload full body image of yourself. This is helpful since your potential mate will know in advance what they are getting themselves into. It can be quite frustrating for your date to decide that the date is over the minute the two of you meet simply because you are not what they expected you to be.

The first date

lesbian couples in bedFirst dates are usually difficult no matter the type of the relationship. It is particularly difficult for lesbian singles dating for the first time. What do you even say? Where should you go on the first date? These are some of the questions that you have as you plan your first date. To make your first date a success, you have to make an effort to understand your date. From your chat, try to figure out what they like and what they don’t. Do not go overboard with the date and do not come out as cheap either. Be considerate and take things as they come. One of the key lesbian hookup blunders that you can make is taking your date to your favorite hangout. It may seem like a great thing to do since you want them to know the real you but when you take her to your favorite spot, you are practically introducing her to your friends and family. This is not wise since you are not sure if the relationship will work out.

On the first date, you are tasked with coming up with conversation topics if you are the one who made the first move. This can be hard if you are not the talkative type but at least try to make the date chatty. You should also prepare to pay the bill when the check comes. She may offer to pay half the bill but insist on paying it since you are the one who asked her out.

The Sex

Sex is a key issue when it comes to lesbian sex dating. How long should you wait before hitting the sack? Should you wait till after the proverbial third date or should you do it the minute you end your first date? Well, it’s all up to you and what you expect from the relationship. Hitting the sack too soon could spell the end of your relationship and waiting too long makes you out as less liberated. If you see yourself spending the rest of your life with this wonderful lady then it’d be wise to wait a little bit longer as you get to know each other but if you are in it for the thrill then you can go ahead and have sex right after your first date.

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How to Tell If She’s a Lesbian?

Is she lesbian?My friend Cameron is a 32 year old, 6”2, athletic, handsome, successful guy. He is constantly searching for that perfect girl who is smart, pretty, athletic, and have a great personality. Every time he gets excited about a girl, he brings her home only to find out that she swings for the other party. Sometimes I wonder if his gaydar is defected or out of order, but he often disagrees with us. We took him for a challenge, and brought him to a bar and ask him to pick a girl that he would find compatible. There were a lot of girls in the bar that are very straight by our standards, but he manages to pick the obvious lesbian in the corner. He kept insisting that she is straight, but after conversing with the girl, the secret gets exposed with the usual last line: “I would love to go to a party with you, let me check if my girlfriend Hannah is available.” Then Cameron asked with a confused quizzical look: “when you said girlfriend, you mean a girl that is a friend of yours right?” Then he got a big “no, she is my significant other,” and the whole connection is ruin.

He comes home to realize that he has wasted his time on the wrong girl. It’s not that they aren’t nice, pretty, smart, or funny, it’s mainly because they don’t like men. These girls would push Cameron away just to get to me, his galpal. I also feel bad for my other friend Irene, a lesbian who is searching for the girl of her dreams, but would always find herself drooling over a straight girl. She can never quite spot a lesbian despite being one herself. I felt bad for their misfortune and decided to come up with some ideas and equations to help them spot a lesbian so they can avoid another awkward encounter.

 

Fashion is a great way to help you differentiate between the gays and the straight. If the girl dresses like a guy or a tom boy, there is a chance that she might not be as straight as you think, but it’s still not one-hundred percent definite. You would also have to look at how they wear their outfits as well. Some straight girls love a fashionable suit and tie, but if they wear them like Ellen Degeneres, then she is most likely gay. Another example is a baseball cap which can be a fashionable, sleek accessory that girls of every aspect love to wear. If the girl wears the cap backwards or sideways, then there is a good chance she might be a lesbian. Keep in mind that a very well-dressed girl, who have a great sense of fashion and hot jaw-dropping apparel may not be very straight as well. This is a classic example of a lipstick lesbian or bisexual, someone like Angelina Jolie. That is why using fashion alone is not a good strategy for detecting these special ladies, you will also have to consider another component like hair style. A girl wearing a military cut, mohawk, or a Justin Bieber hairstyle is 80 percent gay. Another thing to note is that not all straight girls with short hair are gay, but if you do see one, make sure to check if she uses a lot of hair gel. If she does, then she is most likely a lesbian. Straight girls with short hair usually prefer to use hairspray or they would let their hair flow freely. If you combine both fashion and hair style, it can definitely help your intuition to differentiate between a lesbian and a straight girl.

 

A straight woman usually crosses her legs when she sits down and walks with her back straight and chest pointed out. They want to show their most feminine side for attraction purposes. When a lesbian woman sits down she usually spread her legs wide open like a guy. She would have her shoulders pointed inward to reduce the appearance of her chest. Plus when they have conversations, they tend to have very active hand gestures. However, that is not enough because there are straight women out there with bad posture and moving their hands constantly as they speak. We should also observe how she interacts with other straight females in the room. A noticeably gay woman is usually involved in lesbian groups and they tend to focus their attention towards individuals of the same gender. You will also notice that your lesbian friend would prefer to flirt with a female rather than a male. Lastly, we have to pay close attention to the conversations. Usually, a gay woman will have a great time conversing about sports, tools, same sex marriages, other gay celebrities, and are sensitive about gender related subjects. Another thing to keep in mind is that she would use lesbian slang such as Doris Day, fish and chips, beat, bean flicker, andro, boi, etc. If you notice any of these slangs, there is a possibility that she would prefer a woman over a man.

 

Nowadays people are more open about their sexuality so differentiating a straight and gay woman is easier than it is in the past. In the past, people kept their sexuality hidden to prevent social and cultural judgement and issues. However, not everyone will openly admit their sexuality, so it’s a good idea to have these strategies under your sleeves to avoid any mistakes or awkwardness. These strategies can help you come close to guessing the correct sexual orientation, but your gut intuition is always the best option.If you have a gut feeling that the girl is a lesbian, then most likely she might be despite the lack of factual evidence. Unfortunately, what we don’t realize is that our intuition comes from our subconsciousness, an area that contains valuable information that we barely touch or notice. There could be a time that you have seen a movie involving a lesbian woman, and your intuition could tell you a girl is gay because she resembles that character in the movie. This is why it’s a good idea to combine both intuition and strategies to help you reach a definite conclusion.

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A Lesbian’s Guide to Pride

LGBT PrideIt’s June, which means that Gay pride is in full-swing around the world. Whether you’re in New York City, Toronto, or Paris, there’s some sort of Pride event going on near you. And these festivals are nothing to scoff at, as they attract tens of thousands (and sometimes hundreds of thousands) of people every year.

Pride is not just a time to party. It’s also an important platform for LGBT people to demonstrate who they are and draw attention to issues they’re facing. Although progress has been made, there are undoubtedly still things that need to be addressed, such as trans-rights. Regardless, it’s always a good time for everyone despite the rather serious undertone.

While the entire month is a time to celebrate, the big Pride parade is the culmination of the event. The parade is inclusive, meaning that all groups are represented—lesbian and bisexual women make up a big chunk of the parade. There’s loud music, lots of booze, and, of course, tons of sex. And to survive—and make the most of the parade—it would be wise to look at our top tips for enjoying pride.

  1. Go with friends—It’s always better to go to Pride with friends. Not only will you have people to hang around with, but you’ll also be safer. Gather some friends that you know you can have a good time with and get out there. Make sure whoever you do go with wants to hit up the same hot spots that you do. Your gay male friend probably won’t want to go to the lesbian club with you.
  2. Don’t be afraid to talk to strangers—On that note, you should also be open to meeting new people. Pride is just a joyous occasion and everyone is really social. Pride events have the highest concentration of like-minded people, so who knows, you may meet your new best friend or lover.
  3. Look up lesbian-specific events—You’ll probably have the best time if you go to lesbian-specific clubs and bars. There will be more chances of you meeting new people to get to know, and you’ll undoubtedly be the most comfortable there.
  4. Participate in the parade—There’s nothing more thrilling than marching down a once-busy street to pumping music and cheering crowds. If you have the opportunity, participate in the parade! Join in on the lesbian parade and you’ll be sure to have a blast.
  5. Wear something crazy—Now’s the time to wear that colorful (maybe not-safe-for-work) outfit that’s been gathering dust in your closet. People are known to wear the most eccentric outfits to pride—that is, if they wear any clothes at all. Wear whatever best expresses how you’re feeling, whether that be a rainbow shirt or lingerie. With that said, keep in mind that you’ll be standing and walking all day, so make sure you have some comfortable shoes available.
  6. Wear sunscreen—Because you’ll be outside for most of the day, it’s important to wear sunscreen. You probably won’t be able to find any shade to hide in, so it’s especially important for pride. Bring it with you so you can reapply it throughout the day.
  7. Lesbian PrideHydrate—Yes, you’ll probably be drinking a lot of alcohol throughout the day. That’s all the more reason to make sure your water intake is on point. There are definitely corner shops along the parade route for you to buy water, but if you want to be frugal, bring your own bottle and find a water fountain.
  8. Bring cash—There are a few reasons to bring cash to pride. Maybe you’ll want to tip the drag queen that gives you life or the cute waitress at the bar. There are also some vendors that only take cash, so having some on hand could be the difference between you getting a killer t-shirt and not.
  9. Use the apps—Let’s face it, there’s a lot of sex at It’s quite literally the event with the highest concentration of gays and lesbians, and all of the alcohol and high energy can lead to sex. There are a lot of opportunities to meet women out on the street, but if that’s not your thing, use one of the lesbian dating apps to hook up.
  10. Stay safe—No matter what you choose to do at pride, you need to stay safe. Don’t engage in any risky behaviors that could potentially harm you or someone else, and practice safe sex.
  11. Locate public bathrooms—There’s nothing worse than not being able to find a bathroom when you really, really have to go. If you can, scope out the area beforehand to find bathrooms and situate yourself accordingly.
  12. Don’t drive—You most likely won’t be able to find parking, but if you do, just realize that you won’t be able to drink. Planning ahead and taking public transportation, a taxi, Uber, or Lyft can literally be a life saver.

Can’t make it to the parade this year? Chances are, there will be a ton of after parties you can hit up with your friends and have just as good of a time at. If you’re more of a homebody but still want to celebrate, invite a few of your friends over and have a pride party of your own—you can watch the parade on TV in the comfort of your home, pour yourself a drink, and celebrate.

Just because you’re at home doesn’t mean you have to miss out on the fun festival wear.Rock a fun rainbow-centric outfit and have a party in your living room. You can also show your pride by donating to the cause. Making a monetary donation or even volunteering at an LGBT organization like a local lesbian support shelter will still allow you to share the love. However you decide to celebrate pride, just remember to be safe, have fun, and most importantly, be yourself.

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Online Dating Is Important to Lesbian Singles

online lesbian datingOnline dating is reaching record high levels of popularity around the globe. The opportunity to chat with and meet new people has made this practice very attractive for people of all ages and people with different interests. Of course, the fact that the Internet is now available to almost every person in the world has played its role too. With so many people interested in online dating, it was quite logical for certain website owners to create specialized dating websites that will meet the needs and expectations of specific categories of people and lesbians are not an exception. With the help of dating sites for lesbian women, it is much easier to enjoy this lifestyle.

Being a lesbian today is much easier and simpler because this community is generally accepted well by the modern society. Lesbians no longer have to live in fear and shame and they are free to express their opinions and preferences in public. As a result of that, we have witnessed the emergence of clubs, bars, centers and other facilities focused on this part of the population. So, lesbians can freely go there and hang out with women that are looking for the same thing. However, lesbians, just like all other people, often lack the time for socialization in a classic way. This is where dating sites for lesbian come into play!

How can dating sites for lesbians help?

Dating websites are here to assist women to find someone special locally or even internationally. Modern lesbians are sensitive and delicate individuals and even though this sexual orientation is well-accepted today, there is still some sort of fear of approaching other lesbian women. If you feel like this, don’t worry because lesbian sites have you covered.

Convenience

In order to meet other lesbians, all you need to do is log onto a dating site at any time of the day or night. These special websites are available 24 hours a day, seven days a week. Let’s be clear – not everyone has the time to go to a club or pub to meet lesbian singles. In addition, there are times when people simply don’t want to go out, but they still want to meet other people. By joining a website dedicated to lesbian dating, you will get a chance to talk with other lesbian singles at any time without going out. The vast majority of these websites have chat rooms or instant messaging system when you can communicate with members.

Finding a perfect match

Another great thing about dating sites is that they ask their members to publish their photos on their profiles. In addition to the profile picture, members should also post other photos of themselves. In other words, you will be able to check out your potential lesbian date before you finally meet her. There is no need to be afraid that your date won’t match your criteria at least when it comes to physical appearance. These websites give members the benefit of selecting dates with other lesbian singles and you can choose singles that are attractive to you.

Do what you are interested in doing

Lesbian dating is a broad term and it can mean different things for different people. What makes dating sites focused on lesbians great is the fact that you can clearly state your intentions and what you are looking for. So, if you want lesbian sex dating, you can simply point out this fact on your profile. In fact, lesbian websites are versatile and you can even find hookup sites if you want. There is no point in wasting your time on something that doesn’t make you happy or satisfied and with these websites, you can eliminate this problem easily.

Experiencing something completely new

Even if you are not new in the world of lesbian relationships and casual intimate encounters, you should know that lesbian dating sites are focused on providing a completely different and unique dating experience. The majority of dating sites offer exclusive webcam chats, special textual chat rooms of messaging systems and photo galleries making this experience pleasant and enjoyable at the same time. Another thing that is worth mentioning is that most of these services are very affordable or even completely free.

Not just for dating

casual lesbian relationshipAs we have mentioned before, you can use these dating sites for lesbians for other purposes too. For example, you can start a new friendship with other lesbian singles. You can also arrange an intimate encounter. It is up to you to choose the intensity of the relationship. Just make sure that the other party involved in the process understands what you are doing and expecting. After all, we are talking about live people that have certain feelings and emotions too.

Choosing a dating site for lesbians

There are hundreds of websites like this available to lesbians around the globe. However, the fact is that some of them are better than the others. If you want to choose the best dating site for lesbians you need to take some things into account. For example, you should think about the cost. There are completely free dating sites and there are paid dating sites like this. Some of them keep the basic features free and members must pay to unlock all the features. While we are talking about features, we should mention that this is another important element that can help you find the best site for you.

Does the website have a good search engine that is easily adjustable? Does it offer video chats? Instant messaging? Check the answers and make the right decision. In addition, you must be sure that the website guarantees your privacy and security. You certainly don’t want your personal information to end up in the wrong hands.

In order to save some time, you can always use a review website dedicated to lesbian dating. This is where you can find a summarized report of all the good and bad things about specific websites.

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STDs – Lesbians Should Never Ignore

What is STDs?

Lesbian STDsYou may wonder what is STDs. Let’s take a look at that first.

Infections that can be transferred from one individual to another by sexual contact is widely known as Sexually transmitted diseases (STDs).Chlamydia, Syphilis, Genital herpes and Gonorrhea are some of the popular STDs. But the most popular STD out of more than 20 identified types of STDs is HIV/AIDS.

Most people believe that STDs can be transmitted for women who have sex with men only. Let’s take a deeper look at this question. Also some STDs have a stronger effect on women rather than on men infected with STDs. Therefore you’d be surprised to know that bacterial vaginosis is the most known SDT that is spread among lesbian singles. Hence, STD rates for lesbian sex dating is twice as higher than normal women. By normal women we refer to heterosexual women.

Majority of the STDs need something to penetrate that can act as a microorganism depositer. Chlamydia, Gonorrhea, HIV, and hepatitis B are among them short listed STDs which falls into the above mentioned category. Scientifically this can be described as bacteria being inside the semen or during coitus the eruption from the urethra are transmitted. Another easiest method for a lesbian single to get infected via another lesbian could be a result of exchanging their sex toys with her girlfriend. Although there  is a possibility, lesbians rarely get infected.

While the case or Chlamydia is as such, HPV is different as it can easily be spread through skin to skin contact. A wart on a penis quite easily can mean that there’s a possibility of shedding the HPV virus. By unprotected sex with the female cervix, simply meaning not use of a readily available condoms or other protective measurements it can be spread from skin-to-skin contact. Oral sex can also help spread this disease for lesbians. This can also happen the other way around as well by the wart on the cervix infecting the penis through open-unprotected sex. And yes, to be reminded sex toys can easily be carriers of this disease and infect the lesbian partner. If they want to use sex toys, recommended approach is to use condoms on top of the sex toys as it increases safety then.

Lesbian dating can happen through either serious dating or through lesbian sex dating with single lesbians and bisexuals who have sex with men and women both. WSW is largely identified as lesbian, and they might have sex with partners with both genders, or only with ladies.

While academics are still working hard to find out the rates about STD for lesbians, it’s time to do our research on the information at hand to come up with accurate conclusions. So far these international research centers have been capable of discovering that lesbians can somewhat transmit STDs between each other. It is surprising to note that exclusive lesbians  are at a higher risk of getting infected for few STDs such as genital herpes etc against the women are straight.

Let’s explore why lesbians have a bigger percentage at getting infected with one of the two genital herpes. HSV -1 commonly known as Herpes simplex virus type 1 are the most oral herpes infections whichis responsible for infecting fever blisters and cold sores. HSV – 2 also known as Herpes simplex virus type 2 cause most number of genital herpes infections as per statistics. Regardless, HSV-1 can also transmit infections to the genitals by using oral sex. Therefore it is very critical to understand what should be avoided and what is accepted in an environment like this.

Now I would like to draw your attention to a sometimes casual but sometimes a very important questions for both single lesbian dating couples and straight dating couples. Since same sex couples need not worry about this much, we can ignore this question if we’re looking at exclusive lesbian sex couples. Women who are heterogeneous, tends to therefore take this lightly and ignore this situation when they consider having sex with pregnant women. Scientifically it is proven that all women of any sexual orientation must annually test for STD through the centers for disease control and prevention. Therefore it is wrong to assume that women do not need to use protection when having sex.

Lesbian CondomOral genital contact or skin to skin genital contact can transmit STIs such as human papillomavirus from an infected lesbian single to another lesbian. It should be noted that warts can be transferred by few types of HPV by cervical cancer can be infected with lesbian contact.

If the partner who’s giving oral sex has open cuts or sores in their mouth, especially if the receiver has menstrual blood present in other words going through her periods or there’s vaginal blood present, this therefore increases the odds of passing down hepatitis B, hepatitis C and HIV. Syphilis transmission is possible with women who have lesbian sex , most probably by oral sex, including gonorrhea.

Penetrative sex toys which are shared between lesbians shall be noted seriously to not ignore these information, as it allows women to pass infected secretions which become carriers for gonorrhea, trichomoniasis HIV,chlamydia and bacterial vaginosis.

What can lesbians therefore to perform protective sex and reduce the risk of spreading STDs? It’s not that hard. Women have to take a simple brave step to get tested for STDs remembering that all women are potential for STD infection. If you test positive please get tested for STD and get yourself treated for the good of your own and your loved ones as you not only protect yourself but reduce the risk of spreading through your actions.

Women can get used to doing protective sex more often after reading this article.Simple acts such as changing the condom if you intend to share your sex toy with your partner once you have finished using it can be a good first step.

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What Can You Expect From Online Lesbian Dating and Relationships?

lesbian expectationLesbian dating has received much attention during the recent past, especially due to the cultural shift that the world experienced during the past few years. If you are looking forward to date a lesbian single, you don’t need to worry about anything because there are plenty of lesbian singles websites out there on the internet. You just need to go through them and find a reputed website out of the list. In fact, it would be a good idea to use few of the best lesbian dating sites so that you can increase your chances of finding a potential match.

Plenty of romantic methods are available for you to possess lesbian dating encounters as well. However, it is important for you to keep in mind that lesbians are extremely sensitive and delicate. Therefore, you should approach the relationship with an appropriate mindset. From the recent studies, it was identified that most of the lesbian singles find it as a difficult task in order to approach other lesbian ladies in real life. If you are facing the same situation, you can think about taking a look at the lesbian singles websites that can be found out there on the internet. With the available features in these websites, you will be able to communicate with a potential dating partner and get yourself familiar before you meet each other in real life. This would give you the opportunity to stay away from nervous situations that can arise in the lesbian relationship.

Many different methods are available for the lesbian singles out there in the world to experience a date.

For example, the lesbians believe that becoming together is the best gift available for them to be given to the If you can spend more time with the partner that you came across after browsing the best lesbian dating sites. You will be able to enhance the bond that you have towards each other. This can be considered as the first step that you can take when travelling in the road of enjoyment. If you are planning to go on a vacation, you can think about incorporating your friend. Then you will be able invest your time to have a quality experience along with the lesbian partner. This can enhance the romance in your relationship as well.

While you are engaged in a lesbian relationship, you need to learn how to revisit the notion love. This is one of the secrets available for you to discover a lasting romance. When you are going to spend the evenings with your lesbian partner, you will have to figure out some romantic ideas as well. Otherwise, you will not be able to get the best out of the time that you are spending with the partner. In addition, you will have to take required steps in order to meet your partner on a regular basis. When you meet regularly, you will be able to share great times. You would never regret any moment of your meetups. That’s why all the lesbian singles are strongly encouraged to go on excursions once they get to date someone. These experiences would eventually assist them to transform dating into a long lasting relationship, which can be a fulfilling one. Good things would never come to your lesbian relationship. It is up to you to make such things happen. Therefore, you will have to take the initiative instead of just sitting back.

lesbian dating relationshipsPlenty of methods are available for you to enjoy your date with the lesbian partner as well. Out of them, few are reserved only for individuals who are into lesbian relationships. For example, all the lesbians who are using lesbian singles websites need to realize that becoming closer to each other is the best gift that can be provided towards the dating partner. When you spend more time with your lesbian partner, the quality of your relationship would be improved. It has become a trend in today’s world for online dating, but you need go through required steps in order to meet your partner in real life and then enhance the strength of the relationship.

Dating is an experience that can be thrilling, stressful, nerve wrecking, enjoyable, exciting, and wonderful and heart aching for most of the people who live out there in the world. When you find a dating partner through one of the lesbian hookups sites, you should learn not to expect anything. This would add excitement to your relationship and spice it up. You never know what would happen in the future and all the little surprises that would come on your way will make the relationship an enjoyable one.

There are instances where you can get frustrated with the lesbian relationships. In such instances, you can think about taking the dating notch much higher. When both of you start enjoying the time, you will be able to make the relationship a fulfilling one. In addition, you need to be careful enough to spend the crucial moments together with your partner. Then you will be able to feel satisfied about your relationship. This can be considered as an emotional feeling that you go through to strengthen the relationship. In addition, you would feel rejuvenated and this would create an ideal platform for you to go deeper. This can make you a satisfied lady at the end of the day.

By following these simple steps, you would get the opportunity to enjoy the very best out of your lesbian relationship. It can be dreams come true for most of the ladies who live out there in the world. Eventually, you will be able to get into a long lasting relationship with your partner and you would love to share every single moment of your life with the new partner that you have got. Therefore, you can start looking for the best lesbian hookup websites from now onward to find that perfect partner.

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How To Meet Lesbian Women: A Few Easy Ways

Lesbian BarBeing attracted to women, even if you are a woman is no longer considered something unusual. However, even though many women have realized that they are lesbians, they are still not sure how to meet other women that share the same feelings and views. This is quite natural because modern women usually have busy lives and they don’t have enough time to pay attention to the romantic aspect of their life. But, the good news is that there is more than one good way to meet lesbian women and to start a relationship of this kind.

There are a huge number of lesbian dating websites

Without any doubt, lesbian dating sites can be an excellent place to meet women that are interested in the same thing as you. The fact is that lesbian dating has become a huge online business, so in case you are sure that you want to meet lesbian women, you can definitely boost your chances of finding the right person online. Feel free to join one or more websites like this. Take some time to create an attractive profile and add a few photos that will represent you in the right light. These photos must be real and taken recently. Share some information about interests and hobbies and try to be as fun as you can. Don’t forget that in most cases these websites are encouraging users to browse other profiles and get in touch with other members, so don’t be passive. Don’t hesitate to send friendly messages to women that you like. Keep in mind that you should be clear about your intentions. If you are seeking lesbian sex hookup then you can probably find a girl right away, but if you are interested in a serious relationship, you will probably have to wait for a few weeks or even months to find one. Be patient and your activity on dating websites will bring the aforementioned benefits.

Visit lesbian (and gay) bars

Now here’s another good way for women interested in lesbian singles dating to get in touch with like-minded individuals. This method requires regular night (or daily) outs in bars known for their lesbian clientele. Thanks to these bars you can socialize quite easily. The majority of large cities and even small cities have lesbian and gay bars where you can meet a lesbian date. IN case you are a little bit shy, you can take your friend to the bar at least when you go there for the first time. Most of these nightclubs and bars are present online. Visit their websites to find out more about the events that take place there like karaoke shows and women’s night. In most cases, it’s much simpler to go to a place like this when there is some interesting event. Don’t forget that you should not drink too much alcohol.

Get involved in sporting activities

Just like most people, lesbians are fond of sporting activities. They like to watch and play sports. Some of the most popular sports among lesbians are basketball, volleyball, soccer and softball. If you are an athletic individual you can join an amateur club in your city. Otherwise, you can start watching professional sports teams.

Lesbian social groups

In case you didn’t know, there are special lesbian social groups in almost every major city. You can use some of the popular search engines like Google or Bing in order to find local lesbian centers, special lesbian social groups or groups at local colleges. There are also many lesbian mailing lists found on popular search engines too. In some cases, these social groups have their own sites or magazines that you can use to introduce yourself or learn more about them. Obviously, the more time you spend with other people and meet new people, the more chances for starting a relationship you will have.

Social media platforms

Even though they are present for less than 15 years, social media platforms have become one of the main tools for communication between people. Of course, lesbians are not an exception. In addition to virtual communication, you can use these social media platforms to meet fun, interesting and open-minded individuals locally and worldwide. Remember that there are some game players that use these platforms, but generally speaking, there are tens of thousands of potential lovers and friends that you can find here. These platforms have great search engines that allow users to find new friends based on their location, age, interests and other indicators.

LGBT neighborhoods and business centers

LGBT clubThis is an option to meet lesbian women, but only if you live in a larger city. Spend some and conduct a research to identify the local LGBT neighborhoods close to you. If there is a neighborhood like this in your area, you can rest assured that you can find lesbian-friendly restaurants and coffee shops there. There are also LGBT business centers or stores that are usually close to one another.

Use the help of your friends

For many women, this may be a bold move, but your friends should be able to understand your needs even if they are straight. The power of networking and friends is tremendous and you should not miss this chance to spice up your personal life. In case you already have one or a couple of lesbian or gay friends, you can easily expand your network of friends. Needless to say, with the help of your new friends you can meet more people and get involved in entertaining activities.

Lesbian publications

Finally, you can find local lesbian publications which typically contain personal ads, welcoming businesses, organizations, calendars, concerts and other things of interest to the local lesbian community. It’s easy to find these publications on the Internet or in local lesbian/gay establishments.

Don’t forget that these are just some of the ways that lesbian singles can use to meet other lesbian women in order to create friendships or serious relationships.

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7 Rules For Lesbian Singles Dating

lesbian singles datingIt tаkеѕ a сеrtаin amount of courage whеn you firѕt come оut аѕ a lesbian tо fаmilу mеmbеrѕ and friеndѕ, but оnсе you gеt past аll thаt you ѕtill might ѕtrugglе tо find thе right match for уоu – еѕресiаllу if уоu livе in a ѕmаll tоwn. One оf thе best ways аrоund thiѕ iѕ by jоining оnlinе dаting ѕitе fоr lesbians. Lesbian ѕinglеѕ dating саn be ѕuреr stressful, еѕресiаllу if уоu’vе bееn at it fоr a while.  You can start tо feel burnеd-оut, stressed оut, оvеrwhеlmеd, аnd unmоtivаtеd to keep оn doing it.  And аt some роint, mауbе late at night whеn уоu’rе fееling раrtiсulаrlу lоnеlу, уоu think:  Iѕ lеѕbiаn singles dаting worth it?

If you’re a wоmаn whо finds hеrѕеlf рhуѕiсаllу and romantically attracted tо оthеr wоmеn, then lesbian dating iѕ gоing tо bе a significant раrt of уоur lifе as you ѕеаrсh for уоur rоmаntiс match. Bесоmе familiar with thе lesbian dаting соmmunitу аnd find the wоmаn of уоur dreams. Thеrе’ѕ a right wау and a wrоng wау to start lesbian ѕinglеѕ dаting аnd bеgin a rеlаtiоnѕhiр. Hеrе аrе 7 must-know rulеѕ for dоing it thе right wау. These rulеѕ will mаkе your life better аnd happier аnd mаkе lеѕbiаn ѕinglеѕ dаting a lоt lеѕѕ сrаzу!

  1. End Onе Rеlаtiоnѕhiр before Bеginning Anоthеr

Yоu wаnt to date with lesbian singles then bеfоrе уоu gеt intо a rеlаtiоnѕhiр уоu need to be ѕinglе. In оthеr wоrdѕ, be rеаllу single nоt just аlmоѕt single but completely single. It’ѕ mоrе common tо ѕее “separated” in оnlinе dating thеѕе dауѕ, but never ѕhоuld уоu dаtе someone who wаѕ juѕt separated. Aѕk them оf its dоnе аnd over аnd уоu identify аѕ ѕinglе аnd rеаdу. Stop trying tо keep уоur fееt in bоth wоrldѕ. Mаkе a dесiѕiоn tо get оut, or get in thеrе and work оn making it better. If уоu’rе a ѕinglе lеѕbiаn and lооking fоr dаting, dоn’t gо and gеt your hеаrt аttасhеd tо ѕоmеоnе whо isn’t ѕurе if ѕhе’ѕ dоnе, whо’ѕ just сhесking оut thе single scene tо dесidе if ѕhе’ѕ done fоr sure, or whо саn’t hurt her сurrеnt girlfriеnd juѕt уеt but рrоmiѕеѕ she’ll brеаk uр with her nеxt wееk. Wait to find ѕоmеоnе whо is really single, оr if it’s you, bе really single.

  1. Take Yоur Time

It’ѕ еаѕу tо rush into lеѕbiаn dating, ruѕh intо ѕеx оr intо соmmitmеnt. Ruѕhing never hеlреd аnуоnе whеn it соmеѕ to lеѕbiаn ѕinglеѕ dаting. It tаkеѕ timе tо get to knоw ѕоmеоnе, аnd hоnеѕtlу mоѕt wоmеn dоn’t knоw thеmѕеlvеѕ vеrу wеll either. Bеing thoughtful mеаnѕ уоu’vе ѕреnt timе looking bасk оn уоur life аnd аt what wоrkеd and whаt didn’t in уоur relationships. It аlѕо mеаnѕ you’ve lооkеd аt your раrt in whаt didn’t wоrk. Yоu’rе раѕt blаming everything оn your previous girlfriend, аnd уоu’rе actually willing to оwn hоw you mеѕѕеd uр, too.

  1. Make Uѕе оf Onlinе Dating

lesbian relationshipsOnline dating is great, but it’ѕ only оnе wау tо mееt ѕinglе wоmеn. Yоu’vе gоt tо get a рlаn together tо gеt thе hеll оut of the hоuѕе and be ѕееn. That can invоlvе jоining mееtuр grоuрѕ and then асtuаllу аttеnding thеm. Jоining iѕ nоt thе same as bеing seen. Yоu’vе got tо ѕhоw uр. Thеѕе days, there аrе tоnѕ of ѕосiаl media ѕitеѕ dеdiсаtеd to the lеѕbiаn community. As a newly оut lesbian, this iѕ nо timе tо be prim аnd ѕmug. If уоu really find it hard tо find a dаtе in rеаl lifе, try out Tindеr аnd other lesbian dating wеbѕitеѕ. Yоu’ll be ѕurрriѕеd tо find оut a vаѕt соmmunitу out there who likes you оr the thingѕ that уоu like tоо.

  1. Avоid Mеntiоning Yоur Pаѕt Relationships.

It’s juѕt likе the U-Hаul. Lesbians hаvе a tendency tо tаlk аbоut thеir past rеlаtiоnѕhiрѕ. It’s so universal. Especially if they’re trуing tо rесоvеr frоm a broken hеаrt, lesbians hаvе thiѕ habit оf оvеrѕhаring what wеnt wrоng in thеir рrеviоuѕ rеlаtiоnѕhiр. Perhaps you can dо that оn the fourth dаtе аnd уоu’rе in bеd сuddling аftеr ѕеx. Thеn thаt would be thе perfect time tо talk аbоut уоur ex whо never came back frоm her Eurореаn vacation.

  1. Adjuѕt Your Attitudе.

It’s еаѕу tо fall into thе trар оf bеing grumpy, fruѕtrаtеd оr sad about уоur dаting рrоѕресtѕ when it’ѕ nоt gоing well. But a nеgаtivе аttitudе will рuѕh оthеr wоmеn аwау. You’ll ѕtаrt giving оff “bad vibеѕ.” Sо trу tо kеер a positive attitude and еnjоу thе dаting process. Yоu’ll fееl much bеttеr about it аnd уоu’ll rаdiаtе gооd еnеrgу tо everyone you mееt ѕо уоu can have a ѕuссеѕѕful lesbian ѕinglеѕ dаting.

  1. Onlу Hаvе Sex whеn уоu’rе rеаdу fоr Monogamy

Thе mоѕt bеаutiful part оf a lеѕbiаn ѕinglеѕ dating iѕ the beginning. Thаt fееl-gооd реriоd whеn you’re first gоing out, liking each other, саn’t wаit tо see еасh other, ѕhаring your livеѕ аnd hiѕtоrу, аnd immersed in thе wonderful fееling оf infаtuаtiоn thаt соuld turn intо lоng-lаѕting lоvе. Whеn you wаit to hаvе ѕеx until уоu’rе bоth рrераrеd tо be monogamous, it сrеаtеѕ a bаѕiѕ оf trust thаt’ѕ trulу роwеrful fоr whеn things gеt bumру down thе rоаd. Remember what I said in about jumрing intо bеd. Getting tо the рlасе where уоu’rе рrераrеd tо use thе tеrm “girlfriеnd” аbоut thiѕ woman mеаnѕ it’ѕ timе for sex аnd mоrе ѕеx. And уоu’ll hаvе thе орроrtunitу tо еxtеnd that аmаzing fееling оf falling in love a lоt lоngеr. It’ѕ wоrth thе wait.

  1. Out with thе Old Tоу, And In With the Nеw

Nоw some wоmеn hate tоуѕ, but оthеrѕ lоvе thеm. Mоѕt lеѕbiаnѕ out thеrе are a tоу kind оf wоmаn. I think they hаvе a dеfinitе place in a fun ѕеx life, but when уоu start a nеw rеlаtiоnѕhiр, it’ѕ out with the оld and in with nеw… ѕеx tоуѕ, thаt is. It dоеѕn’t matter how muсh that dildo соѕt, get a nеw оnе for уоur nеw girlfriеnd. Shе’ll lоvе уоu fоr it. Shе’ll lоvе thаt ѕhе helped pick it out. Shе’ll feel rеаllу gооd about being thе оnlу wоmаn you’ve shared thаt toy with. It’ѕ аll about making your nеw girlfriеnd fееl really lоvеd.